We are Out and About—an intergenerational brotherhood of gay and bi men over 40 who are redefining connection, one experience at a time.

In a world where it’s easy to drift apart, we make the conscious choice to come together. We choose joy. We choose each other.

Our community exists to create meaningful friendships, spark conversations, and share laughter—whether we're hiking the trails of North Carolina, dancing under the skyline, or just grabbing a drink after work. No pressure. No expectations. Just real connection with men who get it.

We are diverse in background but united in purpose. Some of us are newly out, some have been out for decades. Some are single, some partnered, some somewhere in between. What we share is a desire for authentic friendship, community, and fun—because we know that life doesn't end at 40…it just gets better.

Out and About is a space where you can show up as your full self. Where your age is an asset. Your story matters. And your presence makes a difference.

Join us. Be seen. Be celebrated. Be Out and About.

🚨 All are welcome, but we shine a light on the often-overlooked truth: it’s not always easy for men in our community to connect due to life’s busy schedule, and that’s exactly what we’re here to change.